Friday, 6 February 2015

Sexy Much?

Bra Crop- Topshop/Pencil Skirt- Anisa Mpungwe for Mr Price/Heels- YDE

Today’s post is somewhat different for me. I decided to do more of a sexy flirty look. I must admit though, it’s not really my style. I am more of an oversized-comfortable-not too tight kind of girl when it comes to clothing; I hardly gravitate towards body hugging silhouettes. However, for this look post I just wanted to look and feel sexy. I think my decision may have to do with the fact that I have recently started gym because I was not feeling good about myself at all. I was at my biggest I have ever been and just felt uncomfortable in my own skin. Although I am nowhere near my goal, I felt the need to stop beating myself up so much (atleast for now) and just embrace my extra curves.

Okay, I know most of you might think that I am absolutely crazy, because I am fairly slim, right? I constantly get the “are you insane? There is nothing wrong with your body” talks. There might be nothing “wrong” with my body, but I am the one who is unhappy with it. There is this notion that if you are not what society deems as overweight, you have no right to complain/be unhappy about your body, that’s total bull if you ask me. I overheard someone say “ I don’t get why skinny people go to gym”- so is gym only for people who want to lose weight? Fact remains that I am not comfortable in my skin and I want to make a change so I can feel better about myself. (Rant over)

Anyway, I am always so fatigued and have trouble sleeping, I decided gym in the mornings would be good for me and boy was I right. I immediately see a significant improvement in my sleeping patterns and my energy levels throughout the day have increased. I am really proud of myself for finally taking the plunge and joining the gym, I have been like a broken record about this for years and my friends can attest to that LOL. 2015 is all about doing those things I said I was going to do,but never really got around to doing it and I am glad I am off to a tremendous start.

What item of clothing makes you feel absolutely sexy? Id love to hear from you :)

Friday, 30 January 2015

Be Unapologetically You

Pants- Stutterfords/Vest- Mr Price/Blazer- Cotton On/ Shoes- Cotton on

I have never been the person that felt like I couldn’t wear a certain item of clothing because of some specific body feature of mine. I get frustrated with friends and people in general when they make the excuse of saying they cannot wear something because they too short, too tall, too wide- I mean, did u even try it on?? Fashion is about risk taking. You try a certain style, you realize it is not for you then you know “okay, that doesn’t work”, that’s how you figure out your true sense of style, by trying new things and certain styles that you wouldn’t usually try. We are far too concerned about “What other people are going to think” and I am guilty of that too. Confidence is KEY. When you confident in yourself, you will no longer be concerned about what other people think of you. Be Unapologetic. Do You.

About This Look

I got these off white pants at a sale at Stutterfords, I love them so much and I am trying to find different ways to style them. I have only worn this gold blazer once and I have no idea why because it is so gorgeous. It is an amazing statement piece for an overall simple look.

What are some items of clothing that you feel do not suit you but you might just take the plunge and try it out?

Images by: Silindile Mhlongo

Thursday, 22 January 2015

All White Ensemble

Linen Two Piece- Woolworths/ Shoes- Topshop/ Watch- Michael Kors/ Arm Accessories- Mr Price & Lovisa

Happy New Year to you all! This is my first official post for 2015 and I am so excited for the year ahead. 2014 was such a rollercoaster ride for me- filled with extreme highs and extreme lows. I have learnt a great deal about myself, and I want to continue to grow into the young woman I want to become. This is the time where most of us are ‘Goal obsessed’, jotting down short and long term goals, To Do Lists etc and even though doing those things are exceptionally good we can easily get sucked into the process of writing things down, without actually getting them done. We can get so caught up in the planning stage of our lives that we don’t dedicate adequate time to actually accomplish those things we set out to do. We need to hold ourselves accountable for our plans and dreams for the future. Not just merely writing down what you want to do, but actually figuring out HOW you are going to get it done.

I am at a place where I have so many ideas and long lists of things I need to do which are scrambling wildly inside my head, that I don’t even know where to start and it has actually resulted in me feeling overwhelmed, while not really getting much done. I have become the ‘I don’t have time to do that’ person. While immersed in my thoughts I constantly find myself explaining how I don’t have time to do this, to do that, I will do it when I have time. I have come to the realization that I am actually not going to get any more time than what I am getting now, so I need to stop making excuses and get to work.

I have always had an issue with ‘balance’- I cannot focus on too many things at the same time, which has not served me well at all. I put the word balance in inverted commas because is there actually such a thing? Can you really distribute your time and efforts evenly across all spheres of your life? I personally do not think so, when you put focus and energy into one thing, something else gets neglected. You just have to figure out which things are worth neglecting. I prefer to use the word ‘Juggle’; it just sounds more realistic and human to me. So, this year I am planning to juggle elements of my life better and to prioritize my time properly.

You cannot just want to accomplish certain tasks; you have to BELIEVE that you can accomplish them. Keep your eye on the prize, have a crystal clear vision of what you want to accomplish and do everything in your power to accomplish it. I never for one second doubt that I cannot accomplish my dreams. You can achieve anything you put your mind to; you just need to believe in yourself- wholeheartedly.

About This Look

I am sure by now you are probably sick of hearing about how I totally love white, but I cannot help it; I have been completely obsessed with it of late. I am finally discovering (and then rediscovering) what my true sense of style is, it is such an exciting transition. Right now, I am all for Clean, Simple and Sophistication. I just completed my degree which means I will be entering into the corporate world; it is such a scary thought because I don’t feel ready. Anyway, my style is centred around the fact that I am entering into a new stage in my life which has me wanting to be more sophisticated, but still keeping my edge.

What are some of your goals, short and long term, which you have set for yourself? I would love to hear them :)

Thursday, 4 December 2014

Whites & Metallics

Suit- Cotton On/Top- Mr Price/Shoes- Mr Price.

I AM BACK!!! Firstly I would just like to apologize for my absence, it has been so hard not being able to blog, you do not know how much I have missed it. With being so consumed with exams and a few unforeseen circumstances arising, I was unable to get blog. Although I am still experiencing some hindrances, I am so happy to be back, and I promise I will bring you spanking new posts as often as I can.

Synonymous with the holiday season is loads of shopping and parties to attend, so I thought it would be fitting to give you some fashion inspiration. Lately, I have been gravitating more towards clean and simple looks, and this outfit is no different. I have said this before, there is something so effortless and clean about an all white look. If you look back on my outfit posts when I started blogging, you will see an abundance of black. I have been trying to stay away from black and wear more light and soft colours which to my advantage is fitting for the warm weather we are experiencing at the moment.

A two piece suit is an ensemble that every woman (and man) should invest in. It is such a versatile look and the ways in which you can style it are endless. Plus, you have two items that you can style individually with other items in your wardrobe. I am loving the whole grown up sophisticated trend, and as I am getting older and soon to be in the corporate world, this is the type of style that I see myself wearing.

I hope you guys enjoyed this post although it was a bit of a quick one. If you would like to see my other all white look click here .

Thank you so much for being patient with me. If you don't have me on social media, here are my handles= Instagram-Kendrahunsley;Twitter-@kendrahunsley and Facebook Page- Kotton&Silk.

Until next time guys :)

XX.
Kendra

Tuesday, 4 November 2014

6 Effective Study Tips For Exams

I know it has been ages since I did a blog post, I missed blogging so much but exams have been hectic along with other unforeseen circumstances that have made it very difficult to blog. I have actually realised just how happy blogging makes me and I cannot wait to be back in full swing very soon.

As I sit on this couch, way too sick to even comprehend my study notes, I decided it would be appropriate to do a blog post on study tips as many of us are either gearing up for exams or have already started. This has got to be the worst time to have the flu, especially because I have finally been able to focus and get my study on. But, I am determined to push through. I have put together 6 study tips that I have learned over the years that have really helped me through this stressful time.

1- Refrain From Reading Solely From A Textbook

So, for the past few couple of days I have been reading from my textbook and found myself being entertained by every- single -not-so-entertaining-thing all because I was bored out of my mind. Make notes using your own words and your own understanding of the material.  I find writing out notes actually helps me study more effectively. This assists you in remembering the work because it is in your own words, therefore you begin to understand the work material better. Also,
use colour pens for headings and subheadings. This brings in a fun element to studying and pretty, colourful notes just look more attractive to read. Find other resources of the same topics you are studying ( articles, academic essays etc), this will result in you having a broader understanding and could assist you on understanding the topics much better.

2- Read Your Notes Out Aloud

I have found, for some odd reason, reading my notes out aloud helps the information stay in my head. Act as if you are teaching the work to students ( You can even go as far as setting Teddy Bears out and teach them) in your imaginary classroom. It might sound a bit silly, I know, but it is very much effective.

3- Do Not Focus Solely On Studying

This is something I have battled with and still battle with even now. I have always put all my focus and energy into one single thing, and everything else must fall away. Its very hard for me to take some time out to engage in other activities while in exam season. This has resulted in me being way too stressed out and constantly feeling overwhelmed. This took a toll on my health and I had experienced a severe panic attack in the exam room of my final exam last year. I felt like a failure, this was a huge wake up call for me.

Now, I try my utmost best to remain calm and constantly remind myself that stress serves no good purpose in my life at all. Exams can be an extremely stressful time, but do try by all means to take some time out and focus your energy on something else for a while. Take time out to do some exercise ( even if its just a 5minute workout); play some loud fun music when you feel you are getting too tired and your energy and focus levels have dropped,this really helps to get your energy back up again; have a chill session with your friends- anything that brings you joy and makes you feel happy. Trust me, your study sessions and overall performance will be much more effective if you have a time- out, just don't over do it.

4- Test Yourself

Create relevant/possible questions based on your study material. Get passed papers and work on them. This will give you a clear indication on which sections you are good at, and which sections you are not so confident in therefore needing to spend more time working on them. This also allows you to really engage with the material, instead of just reading a bunch of words you are most likely not even going to remember.

5- Healthy Snacks

It is so easy to snack on crap, and by crap I mean all the good stuff- chocolates;sweets and all those tasty sugary treats. Those foods are not good for you on a normal day, now imagine when you actually need to focus and feel energised to tackle your exams? Snack on foods such as almonds, popcorn ( lay off on the flavour) , granola bars, string cheese, fruits and veggies and drink lots and lots (AND LOTS) of water. This way you get the nutrients and protein you need to stay focused and energised.

6- DO NOT STRESS!!!!

I don't know how to stress this more, stressing will not assist you in anyway. Whenever you feel overwhelmed- stop what you are doing, close your eyes and just take a few deep breaths. Tell yourself you can do this. At the end of the day, your health is the most important thing. It is so easy to feel defeated and just give up. Suck it up and do what you have to do, nothing in life comes easy. There are no rewards for giving up, it will feel all worth it in the end, I promise.

Okay, I should actually get back to studying now and you should too :-) . If you have any other good tips that are not on this list, please do share.

I hope these study tips have assisted you and has given you the confidence you need to do well in your exams. Good luck to all of you are writing and I hope all goes well, and I wish you nothing but the best.

                                                                                                                  XX
                                                                                                                    K

Sunday, 2 November 2014

Tomboy Meets Feminine Chic

Shirt- Markhams/ Skirt- Mr Price/ Bag- Flea Market/ Glasses- Spitfire

MODEL: CHANE' COTTON

I have decided to introduce a new section to my blog where I style different individuals with different styles. My aim is to provide style inspiration to these individuals,as well as my readers,to be courageous with their style, to step out of their comfort zone, without drifting too far from their personal style. I love styling so I figured this would be a perfect project to introduce to my blog. 

Anyway back to the post, Chane describes her style as tomboy, very comfortable and easily put together. I have  decided to create two similar looks that are similar to her personal style but tapping more into her feminine side. For the first look I paired a flirty pleather skirt along with a buttoned up denim shirt and all stars. The black backpack goes perfectly with the tomboy yet flirty style theme. For the second look I decided to bring out more of her feminine side with a printed blazer,heels and a pair of frilly socks. I was able to provide Chane with some inspiration to create more of a feminine and flirty look with a touch of her favourite masculine pieces.
Blazer- Mr Price/Heels- Mr Price





Let me know what you guys think of this post by dropping me a comment below 

XOXO 
Kendra